love potion

yey! here it goes my girl friends: the things you can do to make your guy fall deeply into you. this may not work for everybody, but as far as i have observed, these things can melt a guy’s heart. the following “tips”, as i may say, seems subtle and most of the time, we neglect to do these things ’cause we think it won’t work… but mind you.. these little things, mean a lot to guys.

*wink* *wink*

 Nakasalubong ni girl si guy sa hallway

This is your chance to leave an impression to a guy, even for a split second. Regardless if you know the guy or not, you shouldn’t miss this opportunity. Stand and walk straight ahead. Never ever look down. Be confident. Try to look into his eyes. This way he will know that someone is looking at him, and if he did look at you, give him a nice simple smile. This is just a courteous way to greet people. Guys don’t make a great deal out of it, so you dont have to worry that they are already thinking that you like them. This just goes to show to you are friendly and accomodating. You don’t have to say HI, just smile everytime you bump into him. He will surely remember you and he’ll make the move to know your name next time he sees you. Or he would probably ask around for your name. 

Kausap ni girl c guy

So you already know each other’s name and finally had the chance to talk (e.g. you’re sitting right next to him while waiting in line, you’re both in a very long boring meeting, or riding the same public vehicle on your way home/office. So always start off by smiling, give him a hint that you know him. Wait for a response, verbally or non-verbally. If in case he just nodded or smiled back at you, you can start off a casual conversation something like, “you’re chris, right?” or “where are you heading?”. If he continues with the conversation, you’re on the right track. If he asks something, answer him directly. Let him know that you’re interested as well, ask questions too. Its a lame conversation if it’s only about you. This is your chance to get to know him, and put your best foot forward. 

Most importantly, listen. Every guy needs someone who listens more. They hate girlswho rant all the time. When they talk serious, they need serious response. When they joke around, they need someone who can go along with their jokes. Act accordingly.

Habang kausap ni girl c guy

Make a good connection. Look at his eyes while talking to him. Know a lot of things about him. What does he enjoy doing, find something in common that you can share with or talk about next time (e.g. good movies to watch, fave food or drink, t.v. or radio shows you both enjoy watching or listening to, etc.) 

Also, dont forget to tap him while talking or laughing with him. They liked it when girls touch them, even if its a soft punch. ;’)

Habang kasabay kumain ni girl si guy

For example you had the chance to eat with him during lunch at the cafeteria or any fastfood restaurant, of course would fall in line to make the order and bring in your tray. What girls can do is to get him them best utensils, hand him a straw or table napkin. Guys do forget to do this when ordering and by doing this for them makes them feel that they are pampered. You can wipe the utensils for him while he’s putting down the food on the table, as if you’re just helping out. Do it like it comes out of you naturally. 

Kapag close friend na ni girl c guy

Remember special events in his life. Greet him on his birthday, if you can greet him at exactly 12MN, do so. It makes him feel special. And do ask him favors. Guys want to be the girl’s knight in shining armour. When youre riding a cab and its late, text him the cab’s plate number. Let him know as well when you’re home safely. CAll him when you’re sick or you’re really bored. Ask if he can pick you up at work or go with you to do an errand. Ask him to walk you home or call him when you’re really sad and upset. Let him feel that you’re happy when he’s there. Once a guy did a girl a favor, he can never ever resist her again…

I hope this helps. If you have questions, feel free to ask. I really wasnt able to say everything i need to say.. but it’s already 1am and i still have work tom.. i’ll maybe discuss this again on this blog… :’) nyt!