things boy friends shouldn’t do to their girl friends

please do mind the spaces in between “boy friends” and “girl friends”. i want this to be clear: these are the things boys shouldn’t do to girls whom they only consider as a friend but never more than that. 

we always do hear stories of girls falling in love with their close guy friends. and guys on the other hand, clean their hands off by saying: “i didnt intend to make her fall.. i was just being nice.”

so to prevent these things to happen, i’m making a list for girls to be aware of and for guys to just stop being flirts and be aware of their gestures that make girls fall head over heels. (do i sound really affected? i hope not.. –HAHA!)

don’t call us in the middle of the night. i know you guys stay up very late, but you can do a lot of things to get you to sleep. Watch good movies, make yourself sober until your eyelids drop, but never ever call us in the middle of the night. You can do it anytime of the day. And don’t make it longer than 3 mins for god’ sake. And dont ever make it a habit that later on you just want to break. Girls really do feel their special when you call them just to say goodnight or that she’s the only person whom can lift you up when you just had a bad day at work or help you make a good decision. this will make girls feel that they are already part of your life. Calling her every night makes her wanna pull the sun down faster so that she’ll hear voice again.

 don’t ever sing us a song. “you are the apple of my eye..”, “Lalalala… means iloveyou..” You know what? no matter how bad you sing, no matter what song you sing… for girls, it’s music to our ears. So never make a tune, never send us lyrics, never sing, and please… never let us hear you play guitar. No matter what it is, we will always remember and we will always put some meaning to its lyrics. Whatever song that is, it will be very special for us and everytime we hear it, we will remember you. So if you don’t want us to do that.. don’t sing at all.

don’t ask too much. Stop acting as if you really want to get to know us deeper. Stop being too personal. Don’t ask about our ex, about our family, school or work… most especially about what we like. Asking us questions make us feel that you are interested. Otherwise, spare us from your inquisitions. 

don’t be funny or mysterious. Stop playing mystery or kiddy games with us. We fall fastly for humor and we easily get intrigued by being inexplicable. Just be DULL. That’s it!

thou shall not touch. Don’t you ever dare to touch even the tip of our fingers, or even try to guide us while crossing the streets. We are big enough to do that on our own. Fyi, our skin is very sensitive that by just touching our elbows, we get electrocuted. 

So there you have it for now.  I can name more… but im too sleepy right now. All i can say is that beware of your actions guys; and girls, don’t assume too much!

Btw, after this I’m thinking of writing a post on how girls can make guys fall in love. Hmmm…